I'm a mom, a teacher, a co-director of a homeschool support program, and a children's author. I wouldn't function as well in this "abundant" life without my supportive community of friends. And when their lives are stretched with their own abundance, I turn to my bookshelf. These "book friends" have shaped, validated, and challenged me in many areas of my life. Here's a sampling of those friends…

Faber, Adele, and Elaine Mazlish. How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk. I first read this book many years ago. Now I just pick it up, open any page (there's often a cartoon on the pages I pick) and approach the children in my life with a new perspective.

Jean Illsley, Connie Dawson, et al. How Much Is Enough?: Everything You Need to Know to Steer Clear of Overindulgence and Raise Likeable, Responsible, and Respectful Children. Finally, a parenting book that is practical and balanced!

Kohn, Alfie. The Schools Our Children Deserve. In talking with parents and teachers who are searching for a new vision for schools, I often recommend this title and others by Alfie, such as Punished by Rewards. If you get a chance to attend one of his presentations, do it! You'll see the passion you hear in his writing.

Kurcinka, Mary Sheedy. Raising Your Spirited Child. I've pulled this parenting book out countless times. There's usually something in it for almost any conflict I encounter with children. And if you can't find your answer there, try another title of Mary's - Kids, Parents, and Power Struggles.

Palmer, Parker. The Courage to Teach. This book may be just what you need to revitalize and reclaim the joy and commitment that first called you to teach, whether you're a parent or an educator. Let Your Life Speak is another gem of his that makes a great gift for almost anyone.

Trelease, Jim. The Read-Aloud Handbook. This is a classic, and it's updated every five years. Jim knows books and the power of the written word and in student choice in reading. Find out when Jim will be in your area. His seminars are entertaining, educational, and motivating. Read his book and you'll be on the right track to helping kids become readers.